

How to Spot an Abuser #5: Physical Violence
Physical Violence is a sure sign you are in an abusive relationship. But the thing is, it almost never starts with a busted lip. Abusers typically begin subtly with an intimidating stance, a hand raised, a grab at your arm, or a quick slap to get your attention. In my memoir, Urge Overkill: A Story of Breaking Free, the first altercation with my boyfriend came late night in the midst of night out. We were heading out of a bar where we’d been watching a band. I had enjoyed a n